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Help me keep my house and take care of my Mom

Journal Entry: Mon Jan 25, 2016, 8:04 AM


I'm not sure how to start this since it's rather a need then a goal. 

In approximately one year from now my ID (Identity Card) will expire. In order for me to make a new ID card I need the documents to my house, here is where the problem gets complicated. 

Initially the house that I live in belonged to my uncle. Unfortunately he died of throat cancer when I was 16 years old. We have been having a very difficult time taking care of him on his dying bed as we had no choice but to have doctors make a hole in his stomach in order for him to be able to eat. 

My mom and I had been sleeping together each night for that period praying that my uncle (her brother) will be able to get through... It was a very difficult time. It wasn’t long before we had to administrate the pill called morphine (an analgesic and narcotic drug obtained from opium and used medically to relieve pain.)It is the drug you give to a moribund person. With his last breath and power he wrote a testament in which he will give all his belongings (including the house) to my mother. 

Now this is where it gets even more complicated. My uncle had 2 daughters that never cared about him, like literally... They didn’t pay for any of his needs during his time of need, not once did they visit him on his dying bed, nor did they help him. They never cared about their father :(. Only his nephew (me) and my mother his sister paid for everything and took care of him with everything we had. Years later after his death his 2 daughters tried to kick us out on the street and take the house by trying to nullify the TESTAMENT so they could have the house that my mother and I live in now. 

Fortunately we had some money at that time to be able to defend ourselves and take them to court and reject the false accusations they tried to hit us with at the time in the attempt to leave us in the streets to win the house. The daughters never gave us the damages after we won that particular process. 

Unfortunately as time passed my mother’s disease started to manifest, her hepatitis disease reached the stage of cirrhosis which destroys her from the inside. At this moment my mother is in the final stages and I’m counting every day and praying to God to have her by my side just a little more. 

Here are some pictures of her current disease ravaging her from inside:  



and it hurts her like hell!



This is the part where I need your help people, friends and family :(

-In the present I only have one year at my disposal to raise these funds to be able to finalize the verdict

- What I need to do is get 2000$ and pay for a lawyer and the Notarial to release the final document that allows my mother and I to transform the TESTAMENT into the house documents. 

- The lawyer needs to be paid to sustain our case in the face of the court against my uncle's 2 daughters to give us the birth right for the house. 

-If we are unable to get these documents within the time limit my mother and I mostly (since I don’t know how long my mother will live due to her mortal disease) will be out in the streets. 

- Without the documents I won’t be able to make my identity card which leads me to the other needs that I have (credit card, and of course the daily/ cost and needs in society.)

Here is a picture of my mom and I. We try our best to smile although we are having a lot of pain in our hearts accumulated 





I live in Romania, I'm only 22 years and I've been trying my whole life to do something usefull but this is a big world and the way it is now it's very hard nowdays. 
I tried to appeal to people's desires and study 3D art and try to offer them what they wish to see. 

A normal job in Romania is only paying 200$ per month... With such a small salary I won't have enough money in years to be able to win the house and continue my life in society. 

This is my story and reason I'm appealing to everyone that can help my situation. 

If anyone would have even 1$ to spare per person (or just share my story on your social pages linked to me) to support my cause so I can achieve my goal and get enough money to get this to an end....I would have no words to explain my appreciation for this support.


Please help me! 
We opened a GoFundMe page where you can donate to our cause.
Any amount of support is very much apreciated! Even 1$ per person Helps!!

 

www.gofundme.com/gvr9raus
or my paypal dean_3012@yahoo.com

You can also share this facebook page I made to help with my cause.
www.facebook.com/House-and-Mom…



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:iconientina1234:
Ientina1234 Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2016  Student General Artist
Imi pare asa de rau ca nu am cum sa va ajut. Imi dau si lacrimile, care acum nu ajuta la nimic, insa o sa distribui pe facebook si pe pagina mea de deviantart. Chiar vreau sa ajut, insa sunt decat un copil, dar niciodata nu trebuie sa renuntam la speranta! Asa ca incearca inca sa speri , si sa te rogi la Dumnezeu ca sa aiba grija de mama ta, pentru ca asa o sa fac si eu.
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Mar 14, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
: ) Multumesc pentru incurajari.
Din pacate e prea tarziu , deja am operato pe mama pt ai scoate infectia . Dar ciroza hepatica tot exista fara un ficat nou.
Si burta tot ii creste deoarece bolii .
Eu ma rog in fiecare zii dar sunt constient de ce poate face boala asa ca nu stiu cata speranta mai e ramasa in mine,
Eu iti multumesc tare mult pt. intentia de a ajuta.
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Ientina1234 Featured By Owner Edited Mar 14, 2016  Student General Artist
Nu trebuie sa imi multumesti ( sa imi multumiti) pentru ca e am aceasta intentie in mine, dar daca as fi avut acum 24 de ani si as fi doctor chiar mi-as da silinta ca sa va ajut,insa...nu este asa. Cu casa cum stati, adica, o aveti din nou, locuiti in ea? Poate pot gasi pe cineva sa va dea o locuinta, sau ceva...Si va rog mult de tot, din tot sulfetul meu, credeti, sperati si sunt singura ca o sa fie bine, nu trebuie sa fiti pesimist, mai bine sa fiti optimist.
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Fire-Link Featured By Owner Jan 31, 2016
I can link this in my journal to help you out.
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
that would be very nice :)
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Fire-Link Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2016
You're welcome :)
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 29, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:") thank you so much sir .
I'm so greatfull for your help .
Any form of help matters a lot to me and I pray that more people will be able to see my cause.
I also apreciate very much what you wrote in the journal for me.
Much gratitude :hug:
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 29, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
hehe :') I love the way you see and exprime things .
Thank you for this it's nice to see a ray of light and hope from time to time
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 29, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:"( what you said made me cry because I feel like it's so true...
Not sure why no one wants to help even with 1$ ...I feel in a way you are so right 
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 29, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I would give free stuff for everyone but 1 render takes hours of work and I have to create fashion design and set lights,poses and others just too look proper...
I can't just offer 5$ commission bcuz  it's too hard to do all of them and it takes a lot of time for only 1. My commission list is alrdy cheap as it is compared to other artists who charge haundreds of dolars for them to do a request. 
I wouldn't be able to do them in time for anyone ..it would take me weeks...months not to mention my pc has to render them all...so much pressure on the graphic card .
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EvilPowny Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I am very sorry I am not able to donate anything but I will make a journal about this when I get to my computer. It is horrible what your uncles 2 daughters are doing. I wish you and your mom the best of luck and I hope you get the money you need :hug:
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:/ I just wish someone can help out.
Sharing the page is helping out but everyone is giving me the same thing over and over again such as they can't help...but I'm sure anyone could help even with 1$  . If 2000 people sees this and wants to help with my issue by just sharing I'm getting no where...
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EvilPowny Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I would love to help you out but I currently have no job as of yet and all the money comes from my mom. I am very sorry I am unable to help you out :(
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:") thats very nice of you that u wish to help, I just meant that i'm getting nowhere if no one spare even a bit.
I never meant to seem demanding i'm sry about that :hug:
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EvilPowny Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Its ok I didn't think you where demanding hopefully some people will be able to help out :hug:
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Dragon-Kid Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016
Stay strong!
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'll try my best : )
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PolicewomanRaped Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016
I shared it and hope that more people will see it. Good luck, you need it.
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:/ I just wish someone can help out.
Sharing the page is helping out but everyone is giving me the same thing over and over again such as they can't help...but I'm sure anyone could help even with 1$  . If 2000 people sees this and wants to help with my issue by just sharing I'm getting no where...
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PolicewomanRaped Featured By Owner Jan 28, 2016
Sorry for being unable to help out...

Wish that someone helpful will appear soon.
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Archaic-Advent Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'm sorry for this situation you are in. I don't have any money to spare, but I will pray for you every night. Stay strong, God will always be with you and your Mother.
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:/ I just wish someone can help out.
Sharing the page is helping out but everyone is giving me the same thing over and over again such as they can't help...but I'm sure anyone could help even with 1$  . If 2000 people sees this and wants to help with my issue by just sharing I'm getting no where...
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KirbyTheAnimalTAB Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016
I don't know how many people are gonna see it but I made a youtube video explaining your situation the best I could. Also I made a journal for my watchers.
Hope everything gets better!
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
thank you for bothering to do so much.
That was so nice of you . I hope people gonna see it and help also bcuz i'm not even close yet of achieving the goal :(
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Ready-set-RUN Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
i will try to help as best i can
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
thank you so much for everything
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Ready-set-RUN Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
^-^ it's ok, your welcome especially in the difficulty your going though, like i said i'll try my best and hopefully we can get you that money soon enough! XD
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
<3 I would be so happy if that would be the case
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Ready-set-RUN Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
well don't stress about it! <3 it'll happen ^-^
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BerryWatterson777 Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016
Poor you! Wow, I didn't know your uncle had two sisters because I'm the only girl in my family; I got 4 brothers and two moms.

As soon I did my commission from a user in Hentai Foundry, I'll help you. I only need $50. (I'm have a account there)

Well, good hearts and love. And hope you win. :D :hug: :heart:
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
My uncles had 2 sisters indeed, one of them being my mom which took care of him. He also had 2 daughters which wants to kick us out of the house by giving lies to the court .
:") that's so nice of you thank you for everything.
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TheRedSweaterGhost Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016  Student Digital Artist
I'll raise as much money as I can!
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:"( I'm so greatfull for that <3
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TensaiProductionz Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016  Student Traditional Artist
Dude, I made a journal for you guys! I hope you and your mom are able to get the money soon!
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I pray a lot and I hope that we gonna be able to gather the money we need to defend our house 
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earthianmoonlady Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016
i'll make sure to share your story on tumblr and fb. 

i'm truly sorry your pain and struggles. 

i hope you get through. 

i truly wish i could help too but i'm jobless with no income coming in but my mom's. my mom wouldn't like me using her money for other stuff since she works herself. 

i wish i could help you, otherwise i would. 

i'm truly sorry that i can't help. =(
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:"( it's ok if u share my story maybe someone will be able to spare some to my cause .
I completly understand and you don't have to apologise :hug:
Thank you so much again.
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RevyRainbow141 Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I can't do too much, but all I can say is stay strong for both your sake and your mum. I know how it feels to have a parent in such horrible pain, my mum was in hospital with a form of cancer and it still gives me nightmares to this day. I hope everything goes well for you and your family, even if things don't seem bright now, there's always a light at the end of the tunnel. If it helps, I can send a bundle of hugs :huggle: :huggle: :huggle: :huggle: D-Does this help at all?
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:") it does feel comforting thank you very much .
I apreciate every bit of comfort you gave me through ur words.
I hope everything will go good and that I'll receive the help to be able to keep our house .
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RevyRainbow141 Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Like I said, there's always a light at the end of the tunnel. Sometimes it just takes a while to get to it :) You and your mum seem like really nice people, you don't deserve to be treated unfairly.
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nightengale1028 Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016
good people go threw ups and downs in life. For every down there is a up and so on and so forth. Its hard but sometimes we all need a helping hand to get over the downs. ^^ good things come to those who are good to others. I will help you If and only IF you love your mother evey day. And pass on a good deed down the line some time from now.
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Edited Jan 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:( I do love my mother very much !
I hold myself not to cry each night in my prayers, altough I fail most of the time by just thinking of how long she has to live and how lil' time we got togheter...and everything she did in life she did for me as I do for her now and I'm praying to God for more time with her .
Asking for help is a tool I took cause I can't do it alone...:( I wish I was more and be able to do everything by myself...but I'm too small in a big world...
I guess words can't exprime love and I can only tell you that you must belive me that I love my mom very much!

Any form of support is apreciated , it doesnt have to be much . Lil' by lil I have hope that I can get there and help my mom and myself as long as keeping our house .
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nightengale1028 Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016
your mother knows you love her. and you cant do everything by yourself your human dont put the world on your sholders and breath the world is gettimg smaller all the time. you just have to make something. not somehting that can last eons that everyone will know. No something better. If you ever have children. Teach them tolerance and kindness. make them good people.  that is something that will last until the vary last days of humanity.
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Mo0nX Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:") that was so nice of you
Thank you.
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nightengale1028 Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2016
dont mention it ^^
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DanteDevilKnight Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2016
Hello.I think we have never met.I don't know who you are but this is less important now.I have read your journal from this person anthonymidnight.deviantart.com… and all i can do is to share this....I am really sorry to see you have such problems and I hope you can fix this problem soon :(.I hope people from my watchers can help you with this...Please take care yourself and good luck from Japan.
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